Have you ever heard the following phrases?
“Boys don’t cry”
“You run like a girl”
“That’s a woman’s job”

Gender stereotypes and limiting language deprive boys of opportunities and positive self-worth. They also support the notion that anything female is weak and has less value which perpetuates a culture of sexual and domestic violence.

As a positive male role model for boys and other men you can help them understand:
• Boys and men DO cry – it’s a HUMAN emotion; show your emotions and let boys know it’s okay for them to do so, as well.
• You fully support their interests without applying harmful and limiting stereotypes; allow boys to explore interests without projecting gender stereotypes that can be shaming.
• Strength does NOT equal violence, aggression, domination and control; instead, exemplify positive strength by embracing the basic human characteristics of respect, kindness, compassion and empathy.

Additional ways positive male role models can make a difference:
• Avoid derogatory phrases like “man up” which support unrealistic/unhealthy gender norms.
• When you see stereotypes in daily life and the media, have a conversation with family and friends about why they are harmful.
• Find ways to motivate young male athletes without using words that suggest men are powerful, women are weak. Look for the positive, “You maintained good running form through the middle of the race.” Be encouraging, “You can do it. I believe in you.”

We believe strongly in the power of communities to create lasting change. Through every day actions, we can move closer to the day when all men and boys are loving and respectful, all women and girls are valued and safe…and violence against women and girls is unthinkable!

Join us!  The 100 Men Campaign was born out of the belief that men have a crucial role to play in the movement to end violence against women and girls. Through greater awareness of this issue and by advocating for violence prevention at the community level, men are becoming part of the solution in ending what has become one of the most significant social issues of our time. To learn more visit wrcnm.org/100-men-campaign.